In this episode of The Sharpen Podcast, hosts Dan Cooper and Steve Van Diest celebrate the 50th episode of the podcast and reflect on 15 years of Acumen. Together, they look back on the lessons they have learned from working with CEOs, business owners, and peer advisory teams across the Acumen community.

Dan and Steve talk about why leadership can feel isolating, why trusted peer relationships matter, and how real growth often happens when leaders are willing to put hard issues on the table. From people problems and financial decisions to family, faith, surrender, and friendship, this episode is a practical reflection on what CEOs and leaders need most: people who will challenge them, support them, and help them become better stewards of the businesses and lives they have been given.

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What You’ll Learn in This Episode

  • Why leadership is often more isolating than lonely
  • How peer advisory teams create space for honest feedback and support
  • Why people challenges and financial clarity are central issues for CEOs
  • How business leaders can integrate faith, work, family, and stewardship
  • Why trusted community can create measurable and immeasurable ROI
  • How surrender changes the way leaders approach ownership, impact, and growth

About the Hosts

Dan Cooper is the CEO of Acumen and and Steve Van Diest is the Regional President of Acumen. They both are hosts of The Sharpen Podcast where they work with CEOs and business owners through peer advisory teams, executive coaching, and leadership development.

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Practical Takeaways for CEOs and Leaders

  • Build relationships with people who can tell you the truth with grace.
  • Do not carry every business burden alone or only home to your spouse.
  • Treat people challenges as core business challenges, not side issues.
  • Get clear on your financials so you can lead with better insight.
  • Look for peers who will challenge your blind spots and support your whole life.
  • Practice stewardship by holding your business, leadership role, and impact with open hands.

Key Topics & Timestamps

[00:07.4] Celebrating 50 Episodes and 15 Years of Acumen
Dan Cooper welcomes Steve Van Diest and introduces the milestone episode, celebrating the 50th episode of The Sharpen Podcast and Acumen’s 15-year anniversary.

[01:27.0] Why the People of Acumen Matter
Steve reflects on what first drew him to Acumen: the quality of the growth catalysts, the character of the people, and the desire to be part of a community he wished he had as a business owner.

[03:35.4] Every CEO Is Figuring It Out
Dan shares that CEOs often appear confident on the outside while facing new and confusing challenges behind the scenes. He also points out that every leader brings specific strengths and “superpowers” to the table.

[04:09.5] The Power of Honest Peer Feedback
Steve recalls early moments in council where leaders challenged one another directly. Dan shares the phrase “stab you in the front” as an example of truth delivered with grace.

[07:40.7] When the Room Stops for Real Life
Dan and Steve talk about moments when peer advisory work moves beyond business into deeply personal struggles, including illness, mental health, prayer, and support.

[10:17.3] Business, Friendship, and Real Community
Dan reflects on learning to stop separating business, social life, and personal relationships. Steve shares how Acumen members often become true friends as trust deepens.

[12:44.5] Leadership Isolation and Real Friends
Dan discusses the difference between “real friends” and “deal friends,” and why CEOs need relationships that exist beyond transactions, meetings, and business platforms.

[14:59.2] The Big Issues CEOs Bring to the Table
Dan and Steve talk about the recurring challenges leaders face: people, people, people, and finance. They explore how peer counsel can help leaders navigate difficult decisions.

[18:07.1] ROI Beyond the Numbers
Dan and Steve discuss how the value of Acumen can show up in business results, family relationships, reduced stress, and better decision-making.

[19:31.1] Bringing Leadership Home
Dan shares how coaching, listening, and asking better questions have affected his role as a husband and father. Steve adds a caution about trying to “coach” a spouse.

[22:47.7] Faith, Work, and Stewardship
Dan and Steve explore Acumen’s faith-infused approach to business, emphasizing that leaders are stewarding their companies, people, families, and impact.

[25:04.0] The Marketplace as Ministry
Steve shares how his view of work changed from seeing business as separate from ministry to seeing good business, healthy leadership, and faithful stewardship as deeply integrated.

[29:26.9] Connecting Head, Heart, and Impact
Dan reflects on how faith helped connect his business mind and his heart, moving him from simply pursuing more to thinking more deeply about impact.

[31:55.0] A Personal Lesson in Surrender
Steve shares how he was challenged to surrender ownership and control in his own leadership, and how that lesson continues to shape the way he serves business owners.

[33:07.9] Looking Ahead
Dan closes by celebrating Acumen’s growth in Kansas City, the Front Range, St. Louis, Phoenix, Wichita, and beyond, inviting listeners to learn more at AcumenImpact.com.

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